‘At Least You’re Young Enough to Start Again’: What Not to Say to a Friend Getting Divorced at Thirty
‘It’s Not You, It’s Me’: How to Believe it Really is Them and Not You
We’ve all heard the famous breakup line, ‘It’s not you, it’s me’. Or perhaps we’ve heard something similar, like, ‘You are amazing, but I just have so much going on at the moment’. Those daunting words, even though they are meant to make you feel better, just end up making you doubt yourself more…
Ending A Tangled Friendship: Grieving a Friends With Benefits
Despite the fact that we hadn’t even been going out, despite the fact that he hadn’t been my official boyfriend, it felt a lot like heartbreak. I realised we’d still had a relationship. Not an official one, but a human one. We’d shared things with each other, shared a bed, cuddled, given each other massages, kissed, and had sex. We cared about each other…