‘Can You Really Be a Queer Muslim?’: Intersectionality and the Complexity of Identity

I Am No Longer Subjugating My Queerness: My Struggle Against Internalised Homophobia, Class Anxieties, and Compulsory Heterosexuality
Identity, LGBTQ+, Queer Megan Willis Identity, LGBTQ+, Queer Megan Willis

I Am No Longer Subjugating My Queerness: My Struggle Against Internalised Homophobia, Class Anxieties, and Compulsory Heterosexuality

I often experience my internalised homophobia as a kind of funhouse. As I walk through and try to find a way out (or rather, a way to come out), trick mirrors and shifting floors suspend me in a state of endless motion; I lose my path, unable to stare issues directly in the face, constantly ricocheting between and turning from them.

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‘Man Up’!
Identity Kyra Meier-Klodt Identity Kyra Meier-Klodt

‘Man Up’!

Grow a pair... Have some balls… Don’t be a pussy… A boy takes off his nail polish for fear of being called ‘gay’... I wonder why it is such a bad thing. Society has made it an insult to be seen as feminine because, in turn, this means you are weak. Young boys don’t wear pink... Boys laugh compliantly at “women belong in the kitchen” jokes…  Harry Styles wearing a skirt is, according to some, single handedly ending the era of manly men. What does it even mean to be a manly man? 

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Why I No Longer Want To Be The ‘Strong Black Woman’
Identity Kyra Meier-Klodt Identity Kyra Meier-Klodt

Why I No Longer Want To Be The ‘Strong Black Woman’

For a lot of my life, I tried my best to twist myself into the shape of a ‘strong black woman’. No matter what was going on in my life, I had to be the ‘strong black woman’. While I now know that I am in fact a strong woman, I know too that this was a mask I wore because I had no clue of who I actually was.

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