Crash Mat
By Amy Spaughton
I wear laid back as a medal and a brand
Burning and heavy and around my neck
When they say it they are right
But when I hear it I hear them telling themselves
It’s ok, it’s ok, she’s laid back
It doesn’t matter what I say to her
She’s laidback
She doesn't have feelings the way I have feelings
She’s laidback
She’s cool
I don’t have to consider her
She’s laid back
She’s a crash mat
I can’t dent her
And so when I do have a feeling, expressed
It’s unexpected
And petty
Calculated
Suddenly I'm a laidback villain
Because I'm in perfect control
So I must be doing this to hurt them
The hero
I become a challenge
For those who live off the flap
My existence devalues them somehow
So they want to pick at me
Prove I’m fake
At least the flappers believe me real